In the post-modern age, it can be harder to meet and maintain relationships. More women travel to different cities, live between countries, and use the internet to socialize. The truth is, it's getting harder and harder to meet people! As we become more and more isolated in our lives, we often miss a sense of community. Here are some suggestions as to how you can build and maintain your own healthy sense of community:
1. Find hangouts in your neighborhood that you like
For example, a coffee shop, a bookshop or a pub. Make sure to say hello to the people who work there regularly, and to invite friends and family that you care about there.
2. Seek out others who are interested in the same things you are
Sometimes, your family and friends don't understand why you want to tango, or fix cars or speak Swahili. If you can find others who share your passion, then you can support one another and have a great time while you do it! Try checking meet-up groups on the internet and go along to hang out with others who are keen to meet and talk with you!
3. Keep in touch with those you already know
Because post-modern women move around so much and live such varied lives, they often encounter difficulty maintaining relationships over time. One of the best things you can do to establish a sense of community is to reconnect with the community you ALREADY belong to. Try writing a quick hello email to a friend you've been thinking of but haven't seen in years. Once a week, write someone a real letter and mail it to them, just telling them what you've been up to in your life. Call your family members that live out of town one day each week, or text an acquaintance who lives nearby to meet up for coffee (maybe at your local hangout!). Those who you care about will appreciate the effort you put in to maintain the strong bonds of your personal community. You will also feel more important and happy, having so many people to care about and who care about you as well.